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I BELIEVE EVERY BEING HAS A PURPOSE CODED IN THEIR SOUL THAT’S WAITING TO EMERGE.

  

Lead like a Wayfinder.
In an extractive, always-on economy, the next edge isn’t more grind—it’s aligning Indigenous wisdom with modern business to create human-centered, regenerative results.

I come from Polynesian Wayfinders who navigate by an inner compass.
I help you activate that compass—your Mana—and install a soul-aligned operating system for how you decide, build, and lead.

I’ve guided founders, leaders, and creators through high-stakes moves and life transitions—from burnout to clarity, from proving to purpose.

How we work: Indigenous wisdom × modern science (IFS-informed somatics, NLP/CBT) to calm the nervous system, make your environment intentional, and turn alignment into clear action.

That’s Manafesting—mind, heart, and soul aligned—so your path honors people and you move like a Wayfinder: precise, steady, alive.

Fulfillment isn’t force. It’s the power within you—broadcast into the world.

 


 

Let’s build what you were born to lead. 

Welcome home.
It’s time to experience a new kind of power. The next edge for leaders and entrepreneurs isn’t more grind—it’s a soul-aligned operating system for creating impact and income with ease.

Why it works
Most people carry the false belief that abundance requires struggle. That belief is the trap. The world is a mirror, not a reward system. You don’t receive what you “deserve”; you receive what you broadcast.

Stop chasing and start remembering. You’re the signal. You’re the source.

Results matter
I help clients embody this truth by recalibrating the nervous system so they can remember—and receive.
When we stop chasing, abundance begins to orbit us. That alignment expands capacity and turns clarity into a sustainable flow of income, connection, and creativity.
Proof: clients report powerful breakthroughs and long-standing patterns resolving in weeks, not years, with decisions made in minutes, not months.

When mind, heart, and soul move as one, you enter a natural flow I call Manafesting—a quantum energetic state that accelerates your speed to results.

Discover how to love your life now—not later, not “when it’s perfect,” but right now, regardless of what’s unfolding.

That’s true freedom.

The Mana Blueprint Workshop

Unlock your next level of personal power with The Mana Blueprint Workshop and 60-Day Transformation Mastermind.

Designed for warriors who are ALL IN, this exclusive bundle offers a step-by-step framework to activate your soul intelligence, unleash your unique energy, and create lasting success. Join the live workshop on March 7, 2026, and continue your transformation with personalized coaching, daily practices, and community support.

Save $190 when you bundle both experiences. Step into your power and embrace your greatest life now!

Join the Workshop here

Free 3-Day Entrepreneur Quantum Reset

The Free 3-Day Entrepreneur Quantum Reset is a free live experience that helps founders and creators clear mental clutter, regulate their energy, and bring order to their workspace so clarity turns into confident action and calm leads to steady cashflow. Across three evenings, you’ll explore IFS, simple grounding rituals, and a practical 90-day roadmap with Tilomai Ponder and Erin Pillman. This reset gives you the grounded focus you need to lead with calm and prepare for your next level.

Join us live Dec 1–3 at 5 pm PST.

Join us live here

6-Week Entrepreneur’s Quantum Bootcamp

The 6-Week Entrepreneur’s Quantum Bootcamp is a transformative experience that helps founders and creators bring order to their space, regulate their nervous system, and build a clear roadmap that turns vision into consistent cashflow. From in-person intensives and organizing sessions to somatic work, financial coaching, and weekly implementation calls, you’ll upgrade your habits, your environment, and your identity. This bootcamp gives you the structure, strategy, and energetic alignment to execute with calm confidence and create results that last.

The next cohort runs January 17, 2026 through February 28, 2026.

Join the Bootcamp here

1:1 Breakthrough Sessions

We decide who we are by age eight—and spend years proving it.
Which version has been running your life?

These sessions use a simple, potent method to end the loop and open your next era.

The 3-Step Process

1) Recalibrate
Regulate the nervous system, identify energy leaks, and expand your inner capacity to hold the vision.

  • Somatic resets to create safety in the body
  • Map the core pattern + where energy is bleeding out
  • Stabilize focus so clarity lands quickly

2) Allow
Let a high-frequency state move through your life (and business) so aligned action feels natural.

  • Train daily “state first, step second”
  • Design an intentional environment that supports flow
  • Replace forcing with guided, precise action

3) Receive
From this aligned state, receive the wisdom, blessings, and abundance that have been trying to reach you.

  • Unblend from old narratives; update Identity 2.0
  • Lock in the next right step (minutes, not months)
  • Create a simple 7–10 day momentum plan
Book you 1:1 Breakthrough Session here

What my Clients Say?

Sabina Reig

‘When I began 1:1 Breakthrough coaching with Tilomai I was recovering from a debilitating car accident. I achieved profound shifts in my mindset and learned how to release anger and resentment through Ho’oponopono practices. These tools accelerated my recovery and renewed my spirit. I'm now challenging myself to complete a marathon in the near future, something I never imagined possible.’

Roxanne Morrissey

'Tilomai is a powerful healer and her guided visualizations and Ho’oponopono hypnotic visualizations promoted my healing from stage 4 cancer.  I also gained powerful insights on unresolved experiences that now feel peaceful. My cancer is now in remission and I have a new outlook on the miracle of life that I had thought was almost over.’

Shana Pearson

‘Tilomai’s Mana Blueprint framework has been a transformative experience for me. It sparked new discoveries on my purpose and mission, both as an artist and entrepreneur. I'm grateful to have gone through the process of creating my Soul Signature which revealed invaluable insights that are now guiding my journey towards success.’

About Me

  

 

My journey has taken me through many roles—from single mom juggling side gigs to Entertainment Producer, Business Executive, Entrepreneur, and CEO. I co-founded a non-profit media company in Los Angeles and led a youth-driven production company in Kenya, where my family and I lived for nearly a decade.

In the corporate world, I earned a reputation for my ability to handle high-stakes projects and demanding clients. Yet, behind the confidence was a constant drive to prove my worth, fueled by a need to over-deliver just to feel validated.

Then came the pandemic. My busy life screeched to a halt, leaving me feeling adrift. With the daily grind gone, I sensed something I had long ignored—my soul urging me to remember what truly mattered. That nudge became impossible to ignore, and I soon realized my life crash had been brewing for a long time..

 

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About My Coaching

In today’s fast-paced world, traditional approaches to success often leave us feeling disconnected, unfulfilled, and out of alignment with our true selves. My mission is to guide you in tapping into your soul’s intelligence—your Mana—to create a life without limits, one that aligns with your most authentic self and reflects your deepest purpose.

My work bridges modern science with ancient healing practices, offering a unique and transformative approach to personal growth. Through a blend of Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Human Design, and energetic healing techniques, I empower clients to overcome challenges, reconnect with their true essence, and create meaningful change. Each journey is personalized, integrating evidence-based methods with insights drawn from mentors, research, and client feedback to deliver powerful, lasting results.

‘Manafesting’ is at the core of this transformation. It’s about taking 100% responsibility for your life, recognizing every experience—even the difficult ones—as part of a divine order. By upgrading your entire operating system and aligning with your soul’s intelligence, you’ll unlock your highest potential and experience a profound shift in how you live and lead.

Certifications
  • *Certified Master Life Coach (Level 2)
  • Certified NLP Practitioner
  • Certified Ho'oponopono Practitioner
  • *International Coaching Federation (PCC qualifying)

Melanie Balutski

‘When I say my life has transformed in every area of my life I mean it. :) My health has shifted from being low energy and largely inactive to now steadily losing weight and feeling a return of vitality and excitement as I plan my upcoming wedding ! A big win is having the tools to handle anxiety, along with new mindsets and habits that encourage me to live from my soul on a daily basis. I think the biggest win is feeling like I'm truly getting my life back, only it's so much better now. ’

Emmanuel Nyame

"Tilomai’s coaching was a lifeline during the early, overwhelming days of my business. She provided invaluable strategies for managing stress, breaking down big tasks, and setting boundaries—all of which made me more productive and resilient. Her unwavering support helped me cultivate a growth mindset, embrace challenges, and prioritize self-care. I’m incredibly grateful for her mentorship, which has transformed both my personal and professional life."

Rehema Majala

"Tilomai is one of the most transformational teachers I've ever worked with. Her unique blend of ancient practices and modern science was perfect for my over-thinking mind. With her guidance, I shifted from compulsive thinking to using my inner guidance system to stay calm and centered, no matter the circumstances. Embracing vulnerability and authenticity has become a powerful tool I now rely on, reminding me that when I’m centered, nothing is out of reach. Tilomai’s approach is truly life-changing."

Coming Soon...

 

7 Days of Soul Reset
7 Days of Ho’oponopono

(Hawaiian ancient forgiveness practice)

The Magic of Manafesting